Despite all its benefits, gratitude doesn't always come naturally. It's best thought of as a new skill that requires practice to develop and then routine to maintain.
To unlock the profound benefits for our minds, bodies, and communities, gratitude is a habit we have to cultivate. Here's how:
Reaching Out to Loved Ones
It's easy to let days, or even weeks, slip by without reaching out to the people who matter most to us. Life gets busy, and even a five-minute call feels hard to squeeze in.
So instead of letting yet another day go by, set a weekly reminder to connect with someone you care about. And when you do, go beyond small talk. Take a moment to thank them. Reflect on how they've supported you, and say it out loud. Sharing your gratitude, no matter how small it may seem, strengthens your connection and puts a smile on your loved one's face.
Gratitude Journaling
Most of the studies examining the benefits of gratitude involve putting pen to paper. Journaling isn't magical, but it forces us to be intentional about our appreciation.
Every evening, before you turn off the lights, spend a few minutes writing about the highlights of the day, with particular focus on the people, circumstances, and moments for which you are grateful. It doesn't have to sound pretty, and it doesn't have to be polished. The important thing here is the quiet reflection.
There are even specific journals designed precisely for this purpose. On every page, you'll find prompts to guide you through the process, which is like a guided meditation for developing gratitude.
Saying Thank You More Often
When you're out and about in the world, make a conscious effort to say thank you more often and with more conviction. If someone holds the door, the barista adds a cute foam topping to your latte, or a customer service rep helps you out — these are perfect moments to offer genuine thanks.
Sure, we often say it in passing, but you can make those words more meaningful by using their name and making eye contact. Maybe you feel inclined to leave a generous tip or commend them in front of their manager. Whatever you do, a heartfelt thank-you builds connection between strangers, and one thank-you at a time actually builds a stronger society.
Thank You, from Hometown Hero